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My suggestion is to take him and everyone else with equanimity. It’s difficult enough to work on ourselves.

Ignorance. I am trying to hold back my tongue (type) on this one especially since we aren’t even two weeks removed from 45+ LBGT people in my community being murdered by a coward.

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